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Is Boarding School Right for Your Child?

February 21st, 2025


Making educational decisions for your child is one of parents' most significant responsibilities. We've guided countless families through this important decision-making process at Darrow School, helping them determine if boarding school aligns with their child's needs and family values. Let's explore the key considerations that can help you make this important choice.

Why Consider Boarding School?

The decision to explore boarding school options often stems from a desire to provide your child with exceptional growth opportunities, both academically and personally. In our experience at Darrow, we've seen students thrive in an environment that combines rigorous academics with hands-on learning experiences, from our innovative visual and performing arts programs to our competitive athletic teams.

A boarding school education offers more than just academics – it's an immersive experience that develops the whole student. Our progressive, thinking-based curriculum encourages students to become independent thinkers and confident learners, while our Shaker heritage inspires values of simplicity, purpose, and community.

Key Benefits of Boarding Schools

When evaluating if boarding school is right for your child, consider these transformative advantages:

Academic Excellence and Support

At Darrow, students benefit from small class sizes and individualized attention, allowing them to explore their interests deeply while receiving the support they need to succeed. Our OG Program and Learning Skills curriculum ensure every student has the tools to reach their full potential.

Personal Growth and Independence

Living on campus provides unique opportunities for students to develop crucial life skills. From managing their daily schedules to learning to advocate for themselves, boarding school students gain independence in a supportive environment.

Diverse Community Experience

Our campus brings together students from across the Northeast and around the world, creating a rich, multicultural community where students learn to navigate different perspectives and build lasting friendships.

Addressing Common Concerns

Parents often share similar concerns when considering boarding school:

Will my child be homesick?

While adjustment periods are natural, our experienced faculty and staff create a warm, supportive community that helps students feel at home. Regular communication with family is encouraged and facilitated.

How will this affect our family bonds?

Many parents find that boarding school actually strengthens family relationships. The time spent together becomes more intentional and meaningful while students develop a deeper appreciation for their family support system.

Is the investment worthwhile?

Consider boarding school as an investment in your child's future. The skills, connections, and opportunities gained often translate into greater success in college and beyond.

Choosing the Right School

Finding the right fit involves careful consideration of several factors:

  • Academic Programs: Look for schools that align with your child's interests and learning style. Darrow's combination of traditional academics with hands-on learning provides a unique educational experience.
  • Location: Consider the balance between proximity to home and the opportunity for independence. Our New England campus offers the perfect setting for growth while remaining accessible.
  • School Culture: Each school has its own distinct character. Darrow's progressive approach and emphasis on individual growth creates an inclusive, supportive environment where students can be themselves.
  • Extracurricular Opportunities: Look for schools that offer programs matching your child's interests, whether in athletics, arts, or other activities.

Preparing for the Transition

If you decide boarding school is the right choice, preparation is key:

1. Visit the campus together during regular school days
2. Connect with current parents and students
3. Discuss expectations and goals as a family
4. Start developing independent living skills at home
5. Maintain open communication about concerns and excitement

Making Your Decision

The right choice will feel different for every family. At Darrow School, we encourage parents to trust their instincts while considering their child's unique needs and aspirations. Look for a school that provides excellent education and aligns with your family's values and your child's personality.

Remember, this decision isn't just about finding a school – it's about finding a community where your child can grow, learn, and thrive. We invite you to explore what makes Darrow unique and discover if our community might be the right fit for your family.

Ready to learn more about the Darrow difference? Contact our admissions team to schedule a campus visit or discuss your child's educational journey.